Friday, February 19, 2016

The Law of Attraction- JK style

"Sometimes I just want someone to hug me and say:
'I know it's hard.  You're going to be ok.  
Here's a cup of coffee, and 5 million dollars!'" 

So- here's what I'm attracted to lately:  The Law of Attraction.
The law of attraction is the name given to the maxim "like attracts like," which in New Thought philosophy is used to sum up the idea that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, a person brings positive or negative experiences into their life.

Now maybe you've seen THE SECRET and thought, "that's a lot of hocus pocus."  Maybe you've been told that you are not good enough, or you believe that you don't work hard enough, or perhaps you believe you are undeserving of abundance (this last one is the one that plagues me).  But I'm here to say BULLSHIT.  
Money is not the root of all evil, I do not have to be a martyr, and I'm just as deserving as the next guy.
I truly believe that a change my mindset is MANDATORY for me in order to stop SURVIVING, and start LIVING!

Here are the lies that I tell myself.....and how I plan to turn my life around through positive self talk:

1.  From:  "I'm not a good salesperson- so I will never make money in my business." 
     To: " I'm one hell of a coach and personal trainer, and I what I sell has has life changing value."
2.  From:  "I'm doing what I love, so I should just be happy that I'm making it" 
     To:  "I'm doing what I love, but the freedom to travel and take some time off will add exponential prize to my well being and purpose." 
3.  From:  "I broke a relationship, so I deserve broken relationships." 
     To:   "I deserve to love and to be loved by someone."  
4.  From:  "I can't afford that." 
     To:  "Won't it be fun when I can afford that?" 
5.  From:  "I'm not enough unless I....." 
     To:  "I am fucking amazing.  Period."  

Experts in the Law of Attraction say that just FEELING the way you want to feel starts the process of attracting good things to you.  How many times have you thought about how you would like to FEEL?  
What things turn you on?  What things excite you?  Those are the things you want to attract more of!!! 

So, tonight I just spent $50,000.00 in my mind.  
I bought a few adventure trips, a really expensive tri bike, breast surgery, some work on my car, a crazy party for all of my friends, .....and it felt amazing!  How fun to concentrate on how we want to feel- to concentrate on the things that make us happy!  

Here's what I know.  If we keep dwelling on the things that are wrong in our life- we'll feel like shit.  If we concentrate on things that make us happy- we'll be happier.  
Gratitude.  Love.  Family.  
It's so simple.

See you in Costa Rica.  I'll be the one looking awesome in my new bikini with amazing boobs.